"What does he really want...?"
"Oh, he said he slept well... not impressed at all..."
"Why does he suddenly say he misses me... I still don't know his taste well"

These are all reactions caused by the strange messages men send while dating.
There are many cases where a budding romance that could have gone well gets stuck in the friend zone because of a few odd messages.

Today, I will tell you about the types of messages women hate from men while dating,
and why they feel that way.

"What are you doing?" "Did you sleep well?" Repetitive robotic messages
At first, it might be exciting. That greeting as the day begins.
But if every day it's just the same "What are you doing?" "Sleep well~"? It feels like an auto-reply.
"Does this person really have any interest in me?" Doubts arise.
 Women want to feel 'interest in me' during conversations.
Specific questions like, "How did that thing we talked about yesterday go?" are much more appealing than just formalities.

Self-centered bragging
"I just got a new car"
"Things are going well at work, so I'm super busy"
"I had wine with friends yesterday, it was fancy~"
...
Of course, it's nice to share good things, but someone who only talks about themselves is just exhausting.
I haven't said anything, yet this person is already deep in their own world.
Women value the feeling of 'having a conversation together'.
Bragging also has its timing. It's impressive when shared at the right moment when I'm curious.

Suddenly saying "I miss you" or "Let's date" out of the blue
Seriously. Comments that come rushing in before feelings have matured
are more of a burden than excitement.
"This person can't control their emotions..."
"Do they do this with multiple people?"
Doubts arise.
Women like a 'trustworthy flow'.
Excessively fast pace can seem light or feel like obsession.

"That's enough~" "Bye~" using a sulky tone
Pouting is cute once or twice.
But if every conversation ends with a tone that feels like emotional manipulation,
the first thought is "Ugh, this is exhausting..."
Women are more attracted to stable partners.
Someone who constantly makes you read their mood is a definite NO in the long run.

Disappearing and then showing up as if nothing happened lol
This is something many can relate to.
Having a good conversation and then it suddenly cuts off, and 5 hours later "lol"
What is this? Did I wait for nothing?
Women feel comfortable with 'predictable communication'.
Disappearing without a word and then popping up suddenly breaks the connection.

So what kind of messages are good?

Nothing too complicated is needed.
"I remembered what we talked about yesterday~"
"How have you been resting lately?"
"I thought you might like this, so I'm sending it~"

These small, sincere words last much longer.

Since dating is literally a 'getting to know each other stage',
every word leaves an impression.
Conversations filled with genuine interest, without being excessive or forced, are the best manners!

So, instead of "What are you doing?" three times, try saying, "You're the type who can't function without coffee today, right?"
Remember that a single line like this can completely change the atmosphere of dating.