I still remember the day I first arrived in Queens 30 years ago after immigrating to the U.S. When people think of New York, they often picture the skyscrapers of Manhattan or the dazzling lights of Times Square, but what I encountered in Queens Village was a completely different scene.

There were low single-family homes lined up, well-kept lawns, and children riding their bikes through an ordinary neighborhood. At first, it felt surprisingly quiet, making me wonder if I was really in New York. However, as time passed, it became busier, and I got used to the loud noise of fire trucks passing by.

Looking back, one of the challenges of immigrant life might be finding a sense of belonging in the community you live in. Queens was a neighborhood that gradually fostered that feeling.

The biggest advantage here is the diversity of people living together harmoniously.

The skin colors of the people you meet on the street vary, and they speak different languages. Yet, no one stands out in a special way.

It's likely because everyone is someone who has come from somewhere else. This makes it relatively easy for newcomers to adapt without feeling too much pressure. When you first arrive in the U.S. and everything feels unfamiliar, this atmosphere can be a surprisingly great comfort.

The cost of living is also a significant advantage. Given that New York City is notoriously expensive, just looking for a place can be overwhelming.

Compared to Manhattan or Astoria, Queens Village maintains relatively realistic price levels. You can get a bit more space for the same budget and enjoy a quieter living environment, which is certainly appealing.

Transportation is not as bad as one might think. Of course, it's not a neighborhood right next to a subway station.

However, using the LIRR allows for quick access to Manhattan, and major bus routes are well connected. For those with cars, traveling to Long Island or New Jersey is convenient. In fact, a significant number of residents in this area rely on their cars for daily life.

However, when I wanted to go to a Korean market or eat at a Korean restaurant, I used to go to Flushing, but these days, the local Korean businesses have increased, reducing that inconvenience.

As for safety, while Queens is not considered a very dangerous neighborhood, some caution is needed when walking alone late at night, as it differs from the bright, crowded streets of Manhattan.

Nevertheless, Queens Village has a peculiar charm. It's a place that is a step away from the intensity of New York while still enjoying the opportunities the city offers.

It may not be glamorous, but it is comfortable, and though it may not be famous, it is a neighborhood filled with the stories of its residents. Perhaps that's why, over time, many people come to refer to it not just as a place to live, but as 'our neighborhood.'