When women are in a situationship, there are several common "points" in the messages that excite them from men.

It's not just about having financial power or good looks; sense, emotion, and realism must be well integrated.

Be sincere while progressing, and create anticipation without being burdensome!

7 Tips for Exciting Text Messages from Men When Women Are in a Situationship

Casually Kind

"I thought of you today and skipped a coffee. I wish we could have had it together."

It may seem like a casual remark, but it gives the feeling that the other person is special.
Even without directly saying 'I like you', it raises anticipation.

Incorporating into Daily Life

"Today's meeting was long, but I endured it by imagining having dinner with you haha."

Naturally expressing "including you in my day"
makes women feel 'Am I a special person?'

Indirect Compliments

"Seeing your smiling photo strangely makes me feel good."

It stimulates emotions more than just saying 'You are pretty'.
When emotions and actions are connected, it's even more exciting!

Remembering Small Details

"Remember what you mentioned last time? Are you still doing that?"

Feeling touched by someone remembering my words.
The feeling of being cared for always scores high!

Stimulating Protective Instinct + Worry

"The weather was really gloomy today... Be careful of catching a cold. I can't help but worry."

Expressing the feeling of caring for you plainly.
It's much more persuasive than saying "I like you a lot" unnecessarily.

Imaginative Stimulating Remarks

"If we travel together, where do you think you would want to go? I imagined it."

Imagining a shared future is a bridge to romance.
Creating excitement with the nuance of "I hope we can do it together."

Just One Word, Leaving an Impression

"I miss you. Just..."

Words sent without reason resonate more strongly.
Short and emotional words leave a deeper impact.

What Messages Should Be Avoided?

  • A careless text that just repeats "What are you doing?"

  • Bragging about oneself

  • Emotionally pressuring texts like "Why aren't you replying?"

  • Rushing too quickly with questions like "Do you like me?"