Before moving to Fort Myers, I did some online research about safety and it made me a bit anxious.

There were statistics showing that the crime rate is higher than the national average, and that violent crimes are prevalent, which made me wonder why a place with so many retirees would have such issues. However, after exploring the area, I understood the reasons. The atmosphere really varies depending on which neighborhood you are in.

It's not necessary to think that the entire city is dangerous just because of the overall statistics for Fort Myers. The problem is that crime is concentrated in certain areas. In parts of East Fort Myers and Dunbar, as well as some older neighborhoods east of downtown, there are places you wouldn't want to walk around at night. Some blocks may seem harmless during the day, but the vibe changes after dark.

So, you shouldn't rush into a contract just because the house prices are low. In Fort Myers, just a 10-minute drive or even a few blocks can change the atmosphere of the neighborhood and the homes. If you were excited about saving $300 on rent compared to the surrounding areas, but then find yourself uneasy about the parking lot at night and uncomfortable going outside, that $300 savings isn't really worth it.

On the other hand, if you head towards South Fort Myers, Gateway, Daniels Parkway, or the planned development areas in Estero, the feeling is quite different. There are many new homes and apartments, and the roads and commercial areas are well-maintained. There are also many gated communities that are preferred by retirees and families. Cape Coral also has its differences by area, but many neighborhoods are quieter compared to some parts of downtown Fort Myers.

However, just because a neighborhood is nice doesn't mean nothing happens there. One thing I pay close attention to is my car. It's essential to lock the doors, and you shouldn't leave bags, laptops, or shopping bags visible on the seats. Even items you think are unlikely to be taken should be stored in the trunk for peace of mind.

The same goes for deliveries. If you order online frequently, having a front door camera is no longer a luxury but a necessity. Especially when you're away from home for an extended period, having delivery boxes piled up in front of your door advertises that no one is home.

After a hurricane passes, another issue arises. You wouldn't believe how many people suddenly appear offering to fix your home. Some may ask for a large upfront payment for roof repairs or tree removal, so you should never give a deposit without checking their licenses and insurance.

If I were to look for a home again, I wouldn't just rely on crime statistics; I would visit the area at night. I would drive around around 9 PM to check if the parking lot lights are bright, what the atmosphere of the nearby shops is like, and how people are moving about.

Fort Myers is not a city that is too scary to live in. However, it's also not a city where you can just get a house anywhere and be fine. If you skimp on checking the neighborhood to save $200-$300 on rent, you might end up living in anxiety every day. It's better to spend a little more to choose a place where you can comfortably come home at night. As you get older, a home that is not just cheap but also a place where you can easily open the door and feel at ease is the best choice.