Having lived in Torrance for over 20 years, I have learned the pros and cons of immigrant life firsthand.

I've compiled a list of things I wish someone had honestly told me before moving here.

If you only talk about the good aspects, it sounds like an advertisement, and if you only mention the bad, it comes off as complaints, so I'll try to present a realistic view.

First, let's talk about the advantages.

Firstly, the weather improves the quality of life. Those who have experienced the humidity and heat of summer in Korea will immediately feel that the coolness of Torrance summers is a real benefit.

Even winter is mostly above freezing, allowing for outdoor activities year-round.

Secondly, there is plenty of space. With the same budget, you can live in a much larger home than in Korea, and you can enjoy living in a single-family home with a driveway, free from parking worries.

Thirdly, there is a well-established Korean community. There are services available in Korean, making initial settlement relatively easy.

Fourthly, the educational environment for children is good. The public school district is solid, and there are various extracurricular opportunities.

Now, I'll honestly share the disadvantages.

Firstly, it's difficult to live without a car. Unlike Korea, where many things can be done on foot, here, a car is essential for grocery shopping, medical visits, and school. You need as many cars as there are adult family members.

Secondly, the cost of living is significant. California is one of the states with a high cost of living in the U.S.

State income tax is high, and when you add in electricity, gas bills, and insurance, the financial burden is much greater compared to the Midwest or Southern states.

Thirdly, housing prices and rent are expensive. The median price for single-family homes in Torrance exceeds $1 million, making homeownership challenging. Rent for a one-bedroom typically exceeds $2,200 per month.

Fourthly, the distance to Korea is a factor. Even living close to LAX, the flight time to Incheon is about 12 hours. Considering travel time within Korea, it's difficult to visit frequently.

Every time there's a family event, it weighs on my heart. This is a common challenge for immigrants in any city in the U.S.

Fifthly, there's a sense of cultural isolation. Even with a Korean community, fully integrating into mainstream American society is a separate issue.

Due to differences in language skills and cultural backgrounds, it takes time to feel a sense of belonging in mainstream society. This is a realistic challenge for first-generation immigrants, even though second-generation children may experience it differently.

In conclusion, living in Torrance as an immigrant is a matter of personal judgment on whether the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

I still believe I made a good choice living here, but it's not the right choice for everyone.

Meeting actual residents before moving and hearing their honest stories is the best preparation.