Last weekend, I visited a friend I have known for over 10 years.

Not wanting to miss his traditional 'fusion barbecue party' held once a month from June to October, I made sure to bring fruits with my family. This summer was no exception; under the warm sunlight of mid-June, just the aroma of thick patties and marinated ribs cooking on the charcoal made me feel that life is truly good.

Summer in Dallas is hot, but that heat gives a sense of being alive. At 6 PM, with sweat beading on my forehead, standing in front of a Texas-style barbecue grill, the heat over 92 degrees feels quite natural. The clear sky without a breeze, the red meat grilling, and friends laughing while handing me beers—this is what I call the 'Texas leisure.'

My friend's house is a spacious single-family home near Lucas, with a backyard that has tree shade, a parasol, and a grill. When grilling various cuts of steak, seeing the tender grain and the juices moistly clinging to the knife makes me think, this is Texas.

A piece of beef carries the pride of Texas, backed by an incredibly large farm. When you add spiced sausage and a spoonful of well-ripened kimchi or coleslaw on white rice... it's not just barbecue, it's a 'masterpiece.'

Dallas is a city where barbecue culture is ingrained in daily life. It's not just about grilling meat on the weekends; it's a tangible culture that connects people. We talk while watching the grill, someone pours beer, and someone plays music. I believe there's no better place to share genuine feelings than at a barbecue party.

Moreover, Texas has a long barbecue season. From spring to fall, the long and hot summer climate here is perfect for enjoying outdoor barbecue cooking. During the day, the weather is just right for grilling, and in the evening, a cool breeze pairs well with a glass of finishing bourbon.

I cherish these small weekend luxuries. The time spent sweating and laughing with friends while sharing happiness over a piece of meat feels more precious as I grow older. There were many reasons for buying a house in Dallas, but having an environment where I can fully enjoy this leisure was also crucial.

On the way back, the scent of smoked meat lingered in the car. It wasn't just a smell; it felt like the 'Texas scent' that reminds me of this day. Living in Dallas is not just about housing prices or taxes; it's these moments that make life feel worthwhile.

This morning, I warmed up the short ribs my friend had wrapped in foil in the microwave. It feels like the laughter and music from yesterday are still echoing in my ears.

And once again, I was convinced. Texas, especially Dallas... is a place where just barbecue is enough to make it a great place to live.