Last weekend, I visited the home of a friend I've known for over ten years.

From June to October, I can't miss his traditional 'fusion barbecue party' that happens once a month, so I always make sure to bring some fruit and show up with my family. This summer was no exception; under the warm sun of mid-June, just the aroma of thick patties and marinated ribs cooking over charcoal made me feel that life is pretty good.

Summer in Dallas is hot, but it feels alive. Standing in front of a Texas-style barbecue grill at 6 PM, the heat of over 92 degrees feels just right. With a clear sky and no breeze, the sight of red meat sizzling and friends laughing while handing me beers is what I call 'the Texas leisure'.

My friend's house is a spacious single-family home near Lucas, with a backyard that has tree shade, a parasol, and a grill. When grilling various cuts of steak, seeing the tender grain and the juices glistening on the knife makes me think, this is Texas.

A piece of beef carries the pride of Texas, backed by a massive ranch. When you add spiced sausage and a spoonful of well-fermented kimchi or coleslaw on white rice... it becomes not just barbecue, but a 'masterpiece'.

Dallas is a city where barbecue culture is woven into daily life. It's not just about grilling meat on the weekends; it's a tangible culture that connects people. We gather around the grill to chat, someone pours the beer, and someone else plays music. I believe there's no better place to share genuine feelings than at a barbecue party.

Moreover, Texas has a long barbecue season. From spring to fall, the long and hot summer climate here is perfect for enjoying outdoor barbecue cooking. During the day, the weather is just right for grilling, and in the evening, a cool breeze pairs well with a finishing bourbon.

I cherish these small weekend luxuries. The time spent sweating and laughing with friends while sharing happiness over a piece of meat feels more precious as I grow older. There were many reasons for buying a house in Dallas, but having an environment where I can fully enjoy this leisure was crucial.

On the way back, the scent of smoked meat lingered in the car. It wasn't just a smell; it felt like the 'Texas scent' that reminds me of this day. Living in Dallas isn't just about housing prices or taxes; it's these moments that make life feel worthwhile.

This morning, I warmed up some short ribs that my friend had wrapped in foil in the microwave. It still feels like the laughter and music from yesterday are echoing in my ears.

And once again, I was convinced. Texas, especially Dallas, is a place where just barbecue is enough to make it a great place to live.